Archive for December 31st, 2011
Don’t take it personal and think it must be related to you. He has his own issues to deal with.
Don’t disapprove, blame or punish him for being stressed up. Everyone has his difficult time. Show your understanding and acceptance.
Don’t urge him to tell you what has happened. He needs to think on his own when feeling stressful. Talk to him at other time.
Don’t worry about him and think he will not get over. He wants you to trust him. Say encouraging words or send encouraging messages to him.
Don’t sit there and wait for him to turn better. He doesn’t want another burden. Do things that make you happy. Talk to friends, grab a book, go shopping with others etc.
Don’t give advice unless he asks. Believe that he has his way to handle his issues.
Don’t demand him to attend to your “abandonment” feelings. Be aware that men and women handle stress in a different way. Discuss about your feelings later when he is ready.
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